San Diego LGBTQ Couples Counseling
shaped around your relationship.
Bob Basque, LCSW
Whatever your relationship looks like — you belong here.
My Philosophy
When the person you love most starts to feel far away — when you're stuck, unsure, and the connection you once had feels just out of reach — that pain is real. And it deserves real help.
You shouldn't have to spend your therapy sessions explaining what it means to be gay, lesbian, or queer, or teaching your therapist about your relationship structure, or wondering whether this person truly understands your life. You've done enough of that everywhere else.
Here, you don't have to. I already get it. So we can get straight to work — on you, on your partner, on the relationship you actually want.
LGBTQ+ couples therapy.
Grounded in research.
Held with warmth.
What People Are Saying
"We came in wanting to open our relationship and not knowing how to do it without blowing everything up. Bob held so much space for the complexity of that conversation — no judgment, no assumptions. We left with a framework, a shared language, and our trust intact."
Couple, together 6 years
"We came in barely speaking. Within a few months, we had started to soften and share our feelings again. Bob gave us our relationship back. He helped us stop fighting and start listening to each other again."
Couple, together 14 years
"We weren't fighting. We weren't much of anything. Just a quiet conflict, which, in some ways, is harder to fix. Bob helped us grieve everything we'd powered through without stopping — including the loss of a pregnancy. Somewhere in that grieving, we found each other again."
Couple, together 8 years